I'm Cutting You Off
Hay Daizee Loves,
I keep mentioning that peace is important to me and how I have to start being more intentional about my well-being and happiness. With that being my focus right now, I have come to conclusion that SOME OF Y’ ALL GOTTA GO. It is time to cut some nutrient sucking weeds out from around me. There are some specific types of people that I will no longer be dealing with. You are not helping me grow so you gotta go. *SNIP SNIP* Keep Reading.
1. HATERS attempting to disguise themselves as a FRIENDS
You gotta go. I seriously just cannot. I am going to write an entire blog post dedicated to this topic but for now just know, I do not have time for this. I said attempt because I do not know who people think they are fooling. I trust THE VIBES and yours are screaming jealous hater. Your body language, your tone, your choice of words, “ALLADAT” has shady vibes. It is so FAKE and I need REAL friends.
Do not hit me up because I am not going to respond. I know who is checking on me just to keep tabs on what I doing. Why do you need to know my every move? I know whose checking on me in hopes that I am losing. I know who is checking on me in an attempt to compare our successes. I am NOT here for it.
2. Unsupportive Friends
I can no longer be around people who do not want to see me succeed and will not support my efforts. Whether it is because they are jealous or because they do not agree with how I am choosing to go about doing things. I can no longer be around people who CLAIM they are my friend but have not and will not support what I am doing. I get too much genuine support from REAL FRIENDS and people I barely know to deal with a friend who has excuses as to why they pass up on every opportunity (big or small) to support me.
3. The Leeches
When referring to people, a leech is someone who clings to another for personal gain, especially without giving anything in return. If I find myself drained of time, energy, money, clothes, etc. while dealing with you, you gotta go. I am flattered that you think I am of value and use but NO. YOU WILL SUCK ME DRY IF I LET YOU. It is exhausting and frustrating. I am good. I am no longer making sacrifices for people who do not make any for me. I am no longer doing favors for people who cannot do anything for me. I am no longer responding to people who pop up ONLY when they need something from me. I do not care what it is. I am no longer letting people take advantage of me or use me.
4. Negative People
UGH! You are just killing my vibe, dude. My own thoughts, experiences, and just seeing all that is happening in the world today are depressing enough. I do not need you adding to the negativity I am trying to keep away. I do not want you around if you are always complaining because that is something I am trying to do less of and something that takes the focus off all that I should be thankful for. If it is impossible to have positive conversations and vibes with you… you gotta go. Life is just too short to be around negative energy. I cannot have a positive life if negative people surround me.
As usual, I could elaborate on each of these a little bit more and I probably will. This is just where my head is at today. It really is time to do some evaluating and cutting.
Love, ALWAYS
Megan